{"id":7330,"date":"2020-05-14T10:27:42","date_gmt":"2020-05-14T08:27:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/dreamsbylinda.com\/?p=7330"},"modified":"2020-05-14T10:29:58","modified_gmt":"2020-05-14T08:29:58","slug":"choice-vs-expectations","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/dreamsbylinda.com\/?p=7330","title":{"rendered":"Choice vs. Expectations"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Life is full of choices and sometimes it&#8217;s hard to decide what we really want. Sometimes the expectations hard and we feel like the only choice we can make is the one that people expect us to do. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>For example: some people study a subject because their parents want&#8217;s them to&#8230; some people get married because their parents want&#8217;s them to and so on, well you get my point. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But the reality is that we all have a choice and it&#8217;s our life to be lived not someone else. The sooner you realise this the more peaceful your life will be. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The reason I wanted to write about this is because there is so many people out there that wish they made other choices, but the fear of judgement have stopped them to move forward. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But please remember that there will  always be judgement and people might not agree with your choices in life, but once again, they don&#8217;t have to live with them you do. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This has happened to me when it comes to the question regarding having children. When people ask me and I tell them 90% of people give me this strange look (like they have seen a ghost) and say&#8230; really. You will regret that one day, are you sure, isn&#8217;t that a bit selfish, you will be so lonely or my favourite one&#8230; YOU ARE A WOMAN, AND THAT IS OUR DUTY. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>SAY WHAT????? People can be so mean, but I have learned to just let it go through me&#8230; I don&#8217;t care anymore because the choice is mine. My mission on this earth is to travel the world and inspire people to be become the best version of themselves and live a life that they worship. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So make your own choices even when they upset other people. Stay strong and continue striving towards your dreams. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p style=\"color:#6690bd\" class=\"has-text-color has-text-align-center has-large-font-size\"><strong>XO Linda XO<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"502\" height=\"429\" src=\"https:\/\/dreamsbylinda.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/Screen-Shot-2020-05-14-at-10.18.03-AM.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-7333\" srcset=\"https:\/\/dreamsbylinda.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/Screen-Shot-2020-05-14-at-10.18.03-AM.png 502w, https:\/\/dreamsbylinda.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/Screen-Shot-2020-05-14-at-10.18.03-AM-300x256.png 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 502px) 100vw, 502px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Life is full of choices and sometimes it&#8217;s hard to decide what we really want. 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