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People that blame you for their mistakes doesn’t mean it, they’re in pain.
People that tell you how much you hurt them (even when you’ve done nothing wrong) doesn’t mean it, they’re in pain and people that talk behind your back is not bad people, they’re in pain.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The constant pain inside of a lot of people is sad but I know it to well, I used to be there. I used to be one of those people, blaming everyone else for my mistakes and my failure. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

But I know now that blaming someone else is not the solution, it won’t make you feel better in the long run. It will only make you fell worse and you will loose yourself on the way. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

A lot of people blame others for being miserable, when the real truth is that the only person that can change that is YOU. Don’t rely on anyone else to make you happy… that’s your job. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

So stand up for your mistakes and make sure to communicate with people even if it feels like they will never understand you.. Then you will keep your POWER, and you know what… Power is the best thing that you can have in your own life. Power will give you freedom to decide who you talk to, who you listen to and who you let into your life. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

So let’s make a promise to ourself today and STOP blaming others for our own failures, mistakes or pain. Do something today that will change your perspective and give you a more clear vision of what you really want in life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Life is short and time goes fast.. unfortunately we won’t realise this before it’s to late to really live the life we wan’t to live. Someone told me yesterday that “Not a lot of people in this world can live their dream life” I work to survive and that’s my life…. I’m sorry to say that it’s this persons own responsibility to change that, but once again a lot of people settle for less than what they deserve and when they retire they are to old to enjoy it. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

I often look at my own life and what I did when i was 26 years old, it changed my perspective and my whole life. I found a new me… a new person with a different view on life. I know that a lot of people in my life call me a dreamer and they definitely don’t agree on my life mission. But it doesn’t matter to me, because I know what my passion is and I know what I was born to do. So for me it doesn’t matter if they agree or not… I have and I will succeed with people that are like me, because we are many dreamers out there. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

I turn my dreams into ideas and I create what I believe in. I know that one day I will look at my life and I will be exactly where I’m meant to be… right there in my own dream. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

XO Linda XO<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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