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I know that the right mindset can make a big difference in life. I have lived a life full with negativity and I know that the more negative you are the more negative your life will be. When we have a negative mindset we don’t challenge ourself anymore, we stop learning new things and we don’t develop. I didn’t live a negative life because of anyone else, it was all my fault. It was my thinking and the way I was acting that made my life so negative.

So I decided to change and try to create a positive mindset. I started focusing on all the good things that I have in my life and I started to research things that inspires me. I started reading and develop new skills to find the positivity in my life. I found what I’m passionate about (writing) and I started creating my happy life.

So this is where I am today, I still have a long way to walk, but at least I have started the journey.
The following steps are the once that I have started to use to change my way of thinking.

1. Focus on self-development

I’m focusing on myself and trying to identify my weaknesses and what’s stoping me from success. For me personal growth is an important phase in my life and every day I try to do something that scares me. I try to study and read about development and how I can change things that I’m so stuck in doing. I am a very opinionated person and sometimes way to stubborn. I find it hard when people don’t agree with me and it makes me frustrated. But yet again I try to change the way I think about things to prevent myself from feeling frustrated. So when I have a discussion now I listen even if I don’t agree. This has helped me to develop myself and grow stronger as a person.

2. Map out my goals

Before when I was very negative I didn’t really have any goals, I was just unhappy and I couldn’t see the solution to even reach the goals that I’d put up for myself.  As we say… – I was stuck in a rut! That has changed a lot and I have started to figure out what my goals actually are and I have started to write them down and focusing on how to get there. What steps do I need to take. Before I didn’t wanted to work for it, I wanted to start on the top. But after researching I have realised that starting on top is not possible We really have to work for what we want and we have to work hard to get there. Every successful person out there have worked very hard to be where they are today.

All we really need is a plan, and every time I reach a goal I celebrate.

3. Start being productive. 

This is the step that I’m working on right now. I really struggle to be productive. I have become a little bit of a lazy person lately. I am determent and I know what I want in life, but when it comes down to being productive I’m not very good. I remember back in the days and how I used to be very productive, but somewhere I have lost that. I try to be productive every day, but I think that my biggest problem is that I don’t know where to start. Because of this I have written down 3 things that I have to do each day. Some days I fail but most of the time I do what I have to do. I try to work my way back to being more productive, and even if it’s a long way I know I can get there eventually. Small steps and focus is all that’s needed. I know I can do it, all I have to do is keep believing in myself.

This is how far I have come and there is more to do. I will make sure to keep you guys updated on the next step that I will take.

If you have any great suggestions on how to create the right mindset please leave a comment below or send me a message. I’d love to hear from you and get some more tips on how to change your mindset.

XOXO