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Have you ever felt like you don’t fit in, no matter how hard you try. Everything you say or do are misunderstood by everyone and no matter how hard you try to be clear they don’t seem to understand anything at all.

It’s a common feeling for people that were born into this world with a purpose… and it’s hard for “society” to cope with the way people like me/us/you/them behave and act.

Belonging is a crucial part for humans… however if you feel like you don’t fit in maybe it’s because one of the reasons below.

1 – Your view on the world is different than the norm

Does the world make sense to you… why are some people rich and some people poor… why are some people born with musical gift and others doesn’t event know how to take a tone. We are all unique and we all have a gift within us.. However some people decide to never dig deep for it while other dig deep within and find their true self. They live their life on their own terms and they don’t fit into the “normal Society” because they are different.

It’s hard to figure out one’s place in the world when you are constantly bombarded with societies expectations, friends and families opinions who feel that you should live your life just like them. But not everyone does and it takes a lot of courage to to live differently than what’s expected. Therefor it’s important to find those people out there that sees the world just like you. FIND YOUR TRIBE

2 – You Are Changing And Growing As A Person

Life happens and people change.. friends become strangers and a place that you once called home might feel like another planet. The years go by and everyone travels down their own roads.

Some people might get married and create a family while some people go soul searching and move away to a different location in search for fulfilment and happiness. We are all different and even if it’s hard to understand that sometimes we have to let go of old friends or move away from bad energy and negative people change is a must.

Change is important in life to find happiness within and trust me when I say… there are a lot of people out there in this world that will bring a lot of love and happiness into your life, as you will to theirs. You just have to keep moving forward towards them. This is the best way to grow… let go of what doesn’t serve you anymore and find people and things that does.

3 – You Or People Around You Are Stuck

It’s very frustrating to feel stuck and it can bring out feelings such as isolation and loneliness. Statistics shows that everyone will suffer form a feeling of loneliness and feeling stuck at least once during their lifetime.

When we feel stuck it’s easy to stay there instead of looking for new opportunities to move away from what’s holding us s prisoner. We get sucked into negativity and it gets hard to break free.

If you feel stuck in life, maybe try something new. Don’t get stuck in your comfort zone because if you stay there you won’t get anywhere. If people around you are stuck, either you try to inspire them to change something or you break free and find your own tribe. Your tribe will understand your vibe. Scarcity is real and if you can’t handle it you may as well fit in and be someone you’re not.

“If it’s important enough to you, you will make the time. If not you make an excuse”

4 – Perhaps You’re Living In A Place That Is A Bad Cultural Fit

It’s been shown that some people doesn’t feel like they fit into certain areas or countries. This is normally places where people see the world differently and the expectations from society is higher.

Open-minded people – often find it hard to live in an environment where people are closed-minded and just don’t get it. Closed-minded people often fit straight into society and they don’t stand out…. while open-minded people are often “different”… they might dress differently, look, act and even communicate differently.

A change of location or environment can therefor make it better for an open-minded person because they can connect better with their surroundings and develop stronger relationships.

The honest truth is that there is NO reason for anyone to spend their life miserable and unhappy living

It’s always ok to be who you are and feel what you need to feel, either they like you or they don’t… Not everyone have to agree on who you are and the way you see the world.

My biggest advise is to be happy with who you are and love yourself. Don’t try to change yourself to fit in… Be You & Be Happy Doing You… When you master this everything else will fall into place.

XO Linda XO​